i find it so incredibly attractive when someone is really good at something, like you can play the violin? damn son. you’re a really talented dj? good for you! i don’t care if you talk to me about quantum physics for an hour straight if i can see the passion in you at some point in that hour i’ll think “whoa, this is really hot.”
The harder it is to sleep. The less REAL friends you will have. The easier it is to see through everyone’s bullshit. The more likely you are going to be annoyed by people. The more you value being alone. The harder it is to deal with the worlds ignorance.